| Hey, First of all i just wanted to remind people of one 
little thing that can be found on the Welcome message: Now, a few things i have to get out of theway 
before i make a list FAQ: i'll adopt a no flamming policy.People have different 
opinion,  but we don't have to be rude in order to express them. So, what i'm trying to say is that we're trying to 
keep the lists and the authors flame free...If you don't like the way one fic is 
going or the pairing, or anything like that, just press the delete buttom, i 
know i do (well, i do to the spam mail_how they get my e-mail is beyond me_, but 
still...).Just try to remember that the author that is writing a B/F or W/Tor 
S/W or B/T (i can dream...) today may write/have written a W/B 
tomorrow/yesterday ....well, they will if i have any saying in this, i (andmy 
personal selection of leather acessories ; ) can be very convincing 
... Now, let's get a little serious.I know that there 
are some people (very few, i believe) that aren't happy about the fact that 
there are non-W/B fics being posted on the lists, and i'm sorry you feel that 
way, but they will keep on coming(if the authors still think 
we're worth reading them).I know that some of you may be thinking something 
along the lines of "Hey, I didn't subscribe to a B/F or T/W list and i sureas 
hell don't wanna see it in the Buffyloveswillow/Buffywantswillow list", andi 
respect your opinion, you have the right to be upset, after all it is a B/W 
centered list, but what you have to keep in mind is that even though some 
non-W/B fics are posted, in the end of the day this is still all about Buffy and 
Willow...They're still the main thing in these lists. More than a year ago 
there were very few(i can count them on my 
fingers kind of few) fics centered around this couple.I used to spend hoursin 
front of the computer typing all kinds of word combination in various search 
engines hoping to find B/W fics, and needless to say, i didn't have much 
luck...I could mark the days there were new stories on Pink Rabbit as the 
highlight of my year, and for a long time that's the way things went...Thencame 
the middle/end of the third season and things started changing, the yet to be 
assembled fans , gained two new author(besides or to most respected and loved 
ones, Janine and Pink) , we got Badbarb(we left us in search of rl) and Pat, who 
is still going strong and that has become one of the most passionate writers the 
W/B fandon has ever had. Now, some of you may be wondering why i'm saying 
all of this, but it's just that it'll help me illustrate my point, and 
i'll use Pat as an exemple.Okay,  so for a long time Pat was the W/B ship 
main writer, almost every day we had a new Pat fic in our mail boxes, be ita 
part of The Becoming one series or one of his terrific one-pieces.This wenton 
for quite some time, during which he was able to make us fall in love with his 
writing.Then, time came and things changed, he felt the need to break away from 
the couple, at least for awhile, and started the B/F and W/T fics...Now, i won't 
say i was happy about it, i'm one of the people that want him back in the W/B 
side and i tell him that every time, but just because he is no longer writing 
about the pair i support i won't simply stop reading his fics...In the end it's 
still Pat writing, and no matter which pair he's writing about , i will still 
admire it and i think that others will too, even the die-hard B/W fans like 
myself...The guy got talent, and that's something worth sharing... The truth is that we have many talented writers on 
these lists, writers that take their time to write great stories.Stories that 
can make us laugh, cry, get excited, stories that make us feel...Unlike Joss or 
Jane or anyone else these people aren't getting paid to do that, they're doing 
it because they like it and because they think others may like it too.Now 
do you really think that these people , people that always manage to cheer 
us up with their stories, deserve to be flamed because they sometimes like to 
write about different 
couples?                               
Gosh, i was channeling a school teacher... In the end what i'm trying to say is , before you 
go around complaining or sending flames try reading the fic first, try to pay 
attention to the plot instead of the ship, keep an open mind, and if in theend 
you still don't like what you read, just press the Del buttom and everyone will 
live happily ever after.And if you want the writer to center on your fav ship, 
try begging instead of flaming...it usually works a lot better... Well, i hope that we can get past the flame 
discussion and go back to our friendly envirement(?)  See ya  Behave I'm off to do some Kim begging, now that she said 
that there would be a W/B end she can't just say that she's pulling the plug on 
that part...I'm kidnapping her till she changes her mind(well, we'll be doing 
other things to, but that's personal...well, not really...) |