Re:

[Erin <erin@xxxxxxxxxxx>]

On Wed, 9 Feb 2000 17:20:35 -0500 , you wrote:

>From: "Clarke, Carol A - Hazelwood" <CAClarke2@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>

>Ok Buffy and Willow Gay Bi or Straight with rights to experiment. It depends
>on were they are in there life's. Buffy and Willow hook up and ride off into
>the sun set. Gay. Everything before null and void. You have to find yourself
>before you use labels.
>Spend there lives with each but feel Bi. It's there lives sort of. 

That's true, it definately matters deep down whether or not they
consider that they were truly in love with men, found them attractive,
and liked having sex with men. I'm not an authority on lesbians by
any means (I'm not one), but I would assume that if they did love &
lust after Oz, Xander, Angel, etc. then they couldn't be lesbian, even
if they lived the rest of their lives in perfect monogamy with each
other. I don't know, though, I'd like to hear other points of view.

I can only speak for myself when I say that I'm bisexual, and I chose
to marry a man. That doesn't make me straight, because I still find
women sexually attractive; in fact, I prefer women. I just found a
man that I love, and that I'm infinitely compatable with.

So the question is, since B&W are fictional and they don't have any
say in what to call themselves :), what do you all consider them to
be?

>College who didn't experiment with something. I went through a Somerset
>Maugh phase I still haven't lived down. 

Hmm, my phase was Ayn Rand, but everyone is unique. ;)

Erin
-- 
"Then again, what is college for if not experimenting?" 
-- Willow, BtVS
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